“Don’t address me as Mrs but Miss” – Married Chimamanda Adichie warns journalist

Award winning author Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie in a new interview blasted a journalist for addressing her as Mrs. Chimamanda.

The author who loves being addressed as a feminist, insisted that her name is Miss Chimamanda Adichie, not Mrs Chimamanda Esega – her husband’s surname.

 

“Before we start this interview please, I just want to say that my name is Chimamanda Adichie. That’s how I want it; that’s how I’m addressed, and it is not Mrs but Miss.  Ms: that’s how I want it. I am saying this, because I just got a mail from my manager this morning. It seems that there are people who attended the church service, and they wrote about it, addressing me as Mrs. Chimamanda (Esega). I didn’t like that at all. So my name is Chimamanda Adichie, full stop!” she told the SUN newspaper reporter.

 

When the interviewer said,  “but people know that you’re married. As an Igbo girl, you know our culture”, Chimamanda aptly responded with

“What does our culture do? Let me tell you about our culture. This thing that you are calling our culture –that when you marry somebody, you’ll start calling her Mrs. It is not our culture; it is Western culture. If you want to talk about our culture, you need to go to people in real Igbo land. But it is true. My grandfather’s name is David. His name is also Nwoye. They call him Nwoye Omeni.

Omeni was his mother. You know why? It is to help distinguish him, because there are often many wives. So, it was his mother that they used to identify him. They know that all of these people came from the same compound, but whose child is this one. You may go and ask people who is Nwoye Omeni, and they’ll tell you it is my grandfather. So, conversation about culture is a long one. I don’t even want to have it.”